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How to Create A Playroom That Will Grow With Your Child

by Dr. Ashley Söderlund

Last Updated on September 16, 2024 by Dr. Ashley Söderlund

One of the reasons we fell in love with our current home is that it has a bonus room right off the living and kitchen area. It is a smaller bonus room than the ones you sometimes see on the second level of some homes or a basement recreation room, but I thought it would be perfect for a family playroom that would grow with our son.

I spent hours looking online at playroom ideas. What I really wanted for that space was a playroom my son would use year after year with good toy storage.

My goal was to create a space that would be functional for creative play, homework, toy organization, and hanging out with friends.

Are you looking for a play area for your baby that will fit right in your living room? Check out this post.

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3 Playroom Ideas and Areas that Will Grow with Your Child

1. Invest in toys that will grow with your child.

Think about your child’s interests — which toys or activities will they love for years to come? My son was three when I designed this space. He loves “going things” and building things.

For his interest in “going things,” we have a train table with easily accessible trains and tracks. The older he gets (he just turned 4), the more he designs the tracks himself (See more on the train wall organizer here).

Because of his interest in building things, I wanted to store bricks and blocks in a way that would be easy to organize and find, even those tiny pieces.

The IKEA TROFAST toy storage units work great for this. Now, those drawers hold bricks, blocks, cars, trucks, and other things.

As he grows, I imagine it will be taken over by school supplies, Legos, science kits, rock collections, model planes, and Erector sets.

2. Create an Open-Workspace.

We attached the IKEA LINNMON table top to two of the IKEA TROFAST storage units to create a desk space (thanks to my Husband, who is Swedish and grew up building Ikea furniture, it’s like second nature to him!).

For extra storage, we attached two of the narrow TROFAST units with shelves on either end.

In preschool, he used this space for art projects, Lego projects, building cities, playdough, kinetic sand, puzzles, and so on.

As he grows, I imagine more complicated Lego, art projects, and homework happening at this desk (and he did—see it now!).

Right now, the desk is about 22″ high, which is really about right for the average first-grader, and it works well with this chair. It works for my son now (who is tall for his age), but I also think he has some room to grow into it.

The LINNMON table top is also easy to clean. In a few of these pictures, you may see some crayon marks. There has been much worse on this table, and a magic eraser has taken it all right off! All of the components of this workspace are anchored.

The desktop is attached to the two bottom TROFAST units with brackets and screws, and the TROFAST units themselves are all anchored to the wall. It is very sturdy. I have attached some images at the end of this post showing how the units are secured.

I have attached some images at the end of this post showing how the units are secured.

We have updated this space into a STEM Makerspace! See it here. 

Playroom ideas

I also love having a bright paint color and a colorful rug to anchor the room. This (aff link) rug is an indoor/outdoor rug I recommend for playrooms because it wears well and is easy to clean. Also, when it’s colorful like this, you don’t notice the dried playdough as much!

3. More Play Areas that will Keep your Child Engaged for Years to Come

Imaginary and Pretend Play Area: This type of play lasts until about the age of 11 (1) and is well known to promote language and social development (2). This area of the playroom has evolved over the past few years.

We started with a play kitchen and dress-up hooks. We still have the hooks, but now they have superhero capes and the kitchen was replaced with this gorgeous (aff link)Teepee. This, by far, the one thing my son plays with the most and it gets the most use on playdates.

Click here for my tips on encouraging creative and independent play.

Playroom Teepee

Building and Creating Area: Simple blocks provide another avenue of imaginative learning which includes problem-solving skills, practicing physics and divergent thinking (3).

We have several kinds of blocks, but my son’s favorites are (aff link) Duplo and Lego. 

I imagine those TROFAST drawers will hold different kinds of building sets as my son grows. (See how I organize the Trofast drawers in my post on  playroom organization).

toy storage ideas

Nature Area: This is a way of connecting outdoor play to indoor play. Playing outside is absolutely essential throughout childhood and I’m excited to share some of our outdoor play areas in other posts.

In our playroom, we have a plant which my son chose himself (and named spidey as it’s a spider plant). The weatherboard I made from a piece of felt. He has a little watering can he uses to care for spidey.

We also have a tray we use to put leaves, rocks, seed pods and other things my son picks up on nature walks.

After our walks, we identify some of the things we saw and I print out coloring pages of that animal or plant for his nature journal.

As he grows I imagine the nature journal will include written entries and perhaps sketches.

playroom areas

Art and Music Area: We have a few instruments in one of the Trofast drawers that are appropriate for his age. Maybe when he’s older a guitar or some other instrument will have a home in this room. We will have to wait and see where his interests take us.

I keep our art supplies in a closet just off the playroom in easy-to-carry bins and an (aff link) art caddy. We also have this (aff link) art paper holder which I love– easy to get just the size paper you want. Art and music are timeless and will easily grow with your child.

playroom art and music area

Hang Out Area: Originally we had two places adults can sit comfortably, a chair and a pouf. The pouf is great because I move it over to the desk for art projects and to the train table for playtime– anywhere I need it.

hang out areas

We have now replaced the big chair with a hammock swing similar to (aff link) this one. This is a great place to let off a little steam and is especially great for highly-spirited kids, kids with sensory issues, or any kids who find swinging relaxing. It has become a place where my son self-regulates and resets often!

playroom swing

We have this attached with a weight-bearing carabiner so we can take it down whenever we need more floor space.

hanging swing in the playroom

After having moved twice in a year it is so great to start feeling settled in our home. Now if only I could come up with a clever solution for my office space…that will have to be the next project! Happy Playing!

Update: I’ve had a few questions on how we attached the Trofast units. I’m attaching a picture of the back side of the units. The units are secured on both sides with a metal plate like this and the bottom units are secured to the wall. The second picture is how we secured the table top to the bottom shelves.

Decor Notes:

The paint color is Sherwin Williams Watery (SW 6478)

Tips from a child psychologist on creating a playroom that will grow with your child. She also discusses essential play areas all playrooms should have. All on a budget-- everything is from Ikea and Target! #Ikeahacks
playroom desk backside
playroom ideas and areas, toy storage

References:

Smith, E.D., Lillard, A.S. (2012). Play on: Retrospective reports of the persistence of pretend play into middle childhood. Journal of Cognition and Development (4), 524-549.

Lillard, A. S., Lerner, M. D., Hopkins, E. J., Dore, R. A., Smith, E. D., & Palmquist, C. M. (2013). The impact of pretend play on children’s development: A review of the evidence. Psychological Bulletin, 139(1), 1.

 http://www.npr.org/sections/ed/2015/02/06/384347659/behold-the-humble-block-tools-of-the-trade

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About Dr. Ashley Söderlund

Dr. Ashley Söderlund is a Developmental Psychologist (Ph.D.) and the founder of the Heart-Mind Method. For over a decade, she has translated the neurobiology of child development into actionable strategies for parents seeking ‘The Science of Calm.

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  1. Janine Halloran

    June 18, 2015 at 9:58 am

    What an awesome playroom, it makes me want to hang out and play too! The nature area is awesome, you’ve inspired me to set one up at our house too!

  2. Danielle Reeves

    June 20, 2015 at 10:56 pm

    So great! As much as I love remodeling, I’d love it if their rooms grew with them longer 😀

  3. Veronika | Tickled Pink Confetti

    July 19, 2015 at 11:00 am

    I agree with every point. It is really important that a child’s space grows up with her and that she loves spending her time there. There is another this that should work for me, too. I have to like the way it looks. 😛 Your play room is beautiful. I love it that your son’s desk actually faces the window and he could look at the garden while he works. I wish I have a window that is low enough for this. Thank you for sharing 😀

    • Ashley Soderlund Ph.D.

      July 19, 2015 at 3:52 pm

      Thank you Veronika. I do love that window, it is one of the reasons I fell in love with this house. I’ve always liked having desks facing windows when possible, I think it’s good for the mind.

  4. Jessica

    August 21, 2015 at 11:27 am

    Where did you get the train table with storage?

    • Ashley Soderlund Ph.D.

      August 21, 2015 at 12:15 pm

      Hi Jessica,

      The brand is little colorado, I like it because they use all non-toxic finishes. You can get the table unfinished as well. Here is the table (affiliate links) http://amzn.to/1E8sAX9 and here is the table with the two drawers http://amzn.to/1NK8Adz.

  5. Candace

    November 12, 2015 at 9:44 am

    Hi Ashley!

    Love this!! Did you use the glossy white or plain white linnmon table top?

    Also, how did you secure the two tall narrow trofast units?

    Thanks!!

    • Ashley Soderlund Ph.D.

      November 12, 2015 at 10:32 am

      Hi Candace,

      Thank you! We used the plain white Linnmon table top which has a little light texture to it but is easy to clean. If you are using it for kids I don’t recommend the glossy finish, I think fingerprints show up too easily. I added a picture to the post above of how the Trofast units are attached.

    • Stephanie E Hanson

      February 6, 2016 at 9:20 pm

      Hi Ashley,

      Love this! I think we’re going to do the exact same thing in a playroom for our son. Did you secure your table top to the shelves at all? Thanks!

    • Ashley Soderlund Ph.D.

      February 7, 2016 at 10:45 am

      Hi Stephanie!

      Thank you. If you do a version of it in your playroom I would love to see a pic– you can come back here to the comments and post it. We did secure the tabletop to the shelves and I would recommend that you do that so it is sturdy. We used a small L bracket. I added a picture of this above in the post.

  6. Debra Richardson

    January 1, 2016 at 10:39 pm

    Ashley, what a great read! I’ve been working on slow updates to my son’s playroom so I’m glad I caught this post before I made too many age-restricted changes.

  7. Alex Hestilow

    July 27, 2016 at 10:59 am

    Hi, Are yo able to tell me what the length of that wall is where you have the awesome storage?

    • Ashley Soderlund Ph.D.

      July 27, 2016 at 11:24 am

      Hi Alex, It is 9 feet and 9 inches — but you could do it in a smaller space if you got a smaller version of the shelves.

  8. Joy

    August 8, 2016 at 11:18 am

    What is the length of the tabletop that you used?

    • Ashley Soderlund Ph.D.

      August 8, 2016 at 1:06 pm

      Hi Joy, It’s the 78 3/4 inch Limmon table top. Hope that helps!

  9. Hillary

    August 28, 2016 at 7:55 am

    What a fantastic room. I am hoping to recreate some of these same pieces in our basement playroom for our almost 16 month old. What size rug is that for reference? Thanks so much!

    • Ashley Soderlund Ph.D.

      August 28, 2016 at 10:39 am

      Thank you Hillary! The rug is 6’7″ X 9’6.” I love this rug, it is soft, yet so easy to clean. It looks brand new and it’s about 2 years old now. http://amzn.to/2buMbbq

      Good luck creating your basement playroom, come back and share a photo when you’re done!

  10. Hillary

    September 5, 2016 at 8:16 pm

    Thanks for the response! We purchased the trofast units this weekend and the countertop to make the little area too but did you cut it down to be the same width. There’s an overhang and wasn’t sure if that’s how it’s meant to be set up. Wasn’t sure if that’s secure having the lip hanging over. Thanks so much!

    • Ashley Soderlund Ph.D.

      September 6, 2016 at 9:26 pm

      Hi! I know what you mean — we did not cut the tabletop down. We have it somewhat centered so that there is a bit more of the overhang in the back and a less in the front. Are you flush against a wall? Our overhang is in the windowsill area. My sister built this as well and they built wooden stands to fit under the tall bookcases to give some more space on top of the bottom trofast– again with most of the overhang behind. She just finished hers and I will post some photos of her space too. You could cut it if needed on the back side and then you wouldn’t have any overhang.

      Good luck!

  11. michelle hiser

    September 24, 2016 at 11:28 pm

    I can’t seem to click on the link where you talk about seating for parents or hang out chairs, can you repost this link?

    • Ashley Soderlund Ph.D.

      September 25, 2016 at 8:33 pm

      Hi Michelle,

      Good call! Yep, those items were no longer available. We actually no longer have that big chair in our playroom. We replaced it with a hammock swing. I updated the links above– hope that gives you some ideas!

  12. James S. Bowman

    December 19, 2016 at 9:20 am

    This is so cute!!! I love that mini kitchen very much! I guess I will make one for my nephew. He will love this very much!

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