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Positive Behavior Book Series for 4 to 7-year-olds

Books to teach children how to regulate their behavior and their emotions! Positive Behavior Book Series for 4 to 6-year-olds

A great book can make an emotion, a problem, or situation that is abstract to your child, concrete, real, and most importantly, solvable. I talk more about how to use books to change your child’s behavior in this post, which also has links to positive book series for children at different ages. This post contains Amazon affiliate links. See my Policies for details. 

Books to teach children how to regulate their behavior and their emotions! Positive Behavior Book Series for 4 to 6-year-olds

Positive Behavior Book Series for 4 to 7-year-olds

The “Learning to Get Along” series by Cheri J. Meiners M.Ed., is great because it is based on teaching children evidence-based techniques for managing emotions and situations in a realistic and concrete way. I also like that the focus of these books is on what to do and instead of what not to do. There are also great suggestions in the back of the book for related games or exercises that can help reinforce the message. For example, in the “Cool Down and Work Through Anger” book, the resources in the back of the book includes a list of cool down strategies, role playing ideas, and even a cool-down card game. There are also suggestions for open-ended questions to ask your child. There are about 15 books in this series, some of the most popular I list below. These books are such a great resource for teaching children positive ways to deal with emotions and social situations (aff links).

Cool Down and Work Through Anger (Learning to Get Along®)Cool Down and Work Through Anger (Learning to Get Along®)Talk and Work It Out (Learning to Get Along®)Talk and Work It Out (Learning to Get Along®)Be Honest and Tell the Truth (Learning to Get Along®)Be Honest and Tell the Truth (Learning to Get Along®)Understand and Care (Learning to Get Along)Understand and Care (Learning to Get Along)

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In my post for younger children, my favorite series “Best Behavior Series,” has books on some of the same topics but geared at 4 to 7-year-olds. These more grown-up versions get into the topic in more depth, yet are still concrete and realistic. For example, in the Words are Not for Hurting, they present how words can be useful, helpful, and hurtful. The book goes through how children feel when they hear hurtful words and what to do if you say a hurtful word. In the back of the book, there are activities and discussion starters as well as other resources for parents. And remember, there are versions of all of these books for 2 to 4-year-olds as well (aff links)!

Words Are Not for Hurting (Ages 4-7) (Best Behavior Series)Words Are Not for Hurting (Ages 4-7) (Best Behavior Series)Hands Are Not for Hitting (Ages 4-7) (Best BehaviorHands Are Not for Hitting (Ages 4-7) (Best BehaviorVoices Are Not for Yelling (Ages 4-7) (Best Behavior)Voices Are Not for Yelling (Ages 4-7) (Best Behavior)Germs Are Not for Sharing (Ages 4-7) (Best Behavior Series)Germs Are Not for Sharing (Ages 4-7) (Best Behavior Series)

I also like the “Being the Best Me” eight book Series also from Cheri J. Meiners, M.Ed. These books focus on building positive behaviors and optimism and can be a nice addition to your library of positive books. Again, the back of the book has great resources: questions to ask your children as you read, ways to reinforce the message, and games and activities (aff links).

Be Positive!: A book about optimism (Being the Best Me Series)Be Positive!: A book about optimism (Being the Best Me Series)Forgive and Let Go!: A book about forgiveness (Being the Best Me Series)Forgive and Let Go!: A book about forgiveness (Being the Best Me Series)Bounce Back!: A book about resilience (Being the Best Me Series)Bounce Back!: A book about resilience (Being the Best Me Series)Feel Confident!: A book about self-esteem (Being the Best Me Series)Feel Confident!: A book about self-esteem (Being the Best Me Series)

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This 8-book series, “The Way I Feel,” is written by clinical social worker Cordelia Maude Spelman. This series is great for helping your child learn how to handle big emotions. For younger children, I like the Daniel Tiger series. But, older kids are still learning about emotions — that they are not permanent, that the emotions don’t control them, and that they have choices in how they feel. These books help children see that everyone has emotions and helps them learn how to “take care” of their emotions (aff links).

When I Feel Angry (Way I Feel Books)When I Feel Angry (Way I Feel Books)When I Feel Worried (The Way I Feel Books)When I Feel Worried (The Way I Feel Books)When I Feel Jealous (Way I Feel Books)When I Feel Jealous (Way I Feel Books)When I Care about Others (Way I Feel Books)When I Care about Others (Way I Feel Books)

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My last series is for those kids who are not as captivated by the straightforward messages in the above series. The younger the child the more concrete the message needs to be, but older children may be more interested in a story that is silly and less direct. I love the “How Do Dinosaurs?” series by Jane Yolen for this purpose. These are playful stories that will help you to open up a dialog about behavior in a fun way. Some kids will respond really well to this. I love watching my son’s face as we read the first part of the book where they dinosaurs act up — he literally cringes, but of course dinosaurs wouldn’t act that way would they? The second half of the book shows the dinosaurs acting mature and prosocial– laughs and lessons– the best of both worlds (aff links)!

How Do Dinosaurs Say I'M MAD?How Do Dinosaurs Say I’M MAD?How Do Dinosaurs Play with Their Friends?How Do Dinosaurs Play with Their Friends?How Do Dinosaurs Say Goodnight?How Do Dinosaurs Say Goodnight?How Do Dinosaurs Clean Their Room?How Do Dinosaurs Clean Their Room?

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Those are my favorite Positive behavior series for 4 to 7-year-olds. Looking for positive book series for other ages, see below! In the meantime happy reading your way to positive behaviors!

How to Use Books to Teach Children Positive Behaviors

Positive Behavior Book Series for 2 to 4-year-olds

 Positive Behavior Book Series for 8 to 13-year-olds

 

 

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